|
If you’re a virgin on your wedding night, first of all Congrats for the accomplishment! It would be an exciting night for you. It would be better if you talk to your partner about sex and intercourse before your marriage. This would help you both to get comfortable with each other. Marriage counseling can also be taken. This helps you to get prepared for everything. Communication between the partners is very important.
Communication between the partners during Sex:
An excellent way to be a good lover is to communicate in bed. It is obvious that both the partners would be nervous when having sex for the first time. You may ask the partners’ likes and dislikes. Communicating with your partner can give you both great pleasures.
Will she bleed? Will it be painful for her?
When a woman loses her virginity, it would possibly bleed or be painful. There is nothing to worry about the bleeding or the pain. Engage your partner in foreplay to make the penetration easy and also less painful. A towel should be kept to protect the bed sheets.
What if I won’t be able to maintain the erection?
The men would feel great pressure for the wedding night. Foreplay can make you feel good. Spend time after kissing and fondling each other. This would help to make the sexual act pleasurable for both the partners.
Will I be able to satisfy my partner?
Practice makes one perfect. It is not certain that the partners would be satisfied during the first time. Do whatever makes you both feel good. Be gentle to one another. Ask the partner what are his / her likings. Share your ideas with the partner.
Tips for virgins at the time of wedding night:
Pack some sexy lingerie for the honeymoon. It would make you feel sexy.
Go for candles, music; massage oils to enjoy the fun together.
Sharing your thoughts about lovemaking, foreplay and sex will make you both comfortable with each other. Women on top position is also suitable to relieve the anxiety.
For the first time, it would be good to try man on top position. There would be some bleeding and pain when the hymen breaks. Use some towel or clean cloth under you to protect the bed sheet.
|
